Hi.
I was once a wedding photographer..through past experience, I made a sheet that they handed back to me two weeks before the wedding. I already have a lot of great shots i plan to do, but I let them tell me if there is anything that is speical to them. Since you do not know the guests, it is best to get it on paper in case they have a cousin from out of town that is a MUST photo. Or a Godmother, or they may want more candids then formals. I always relax them before shooting by telling them how radiant and gorgeous they look...they will melt and give you great photos. You do not want them to be afraid of the camera.
I did so many weddings and I never had anyone dissatisfied. Make sure you do table shots before food messes them up, Lay down the table numbers, and I usually stand the people who have their back to you around the side of the table where the others are facing you..some standing, some sitting. It works.
You have to be in control. Buy yourself a pin that says Photographer....or some guests will actually boot you out of a shot they want. Wear very professional clothing. I am a lady, and always wore a black jacket, white blouse, and a black skirt (pants for men). I dressed like the older stewardesses, and I got respect.
Another hint...if you are going to ahve dinner...please tell them NOT to put you upstairs by yourself, or in another room. you can not capture a photo moment withlut being in the room.
Best of luck to you. Choose your lenses wisely, but I wanted to add a few things so it will be a smash for you. I was a great success without advertising. I am retired now, and miss photography on that level. Later, Audrey |